Attributes:

Accommodating
Gentle
Indecisive
Procrastinator
Even-tempered
Reserved
Avoidant
Introspective
Laid back
Mellow
Sympathetic
Pleasant and Patient
Tolerant
Steady
Loyal
Indifferent
Stoic
Deliberate
Generous
Unmotivated

Attributes:

The Green Relationships

Bear + Bear

Grounded Green

Harmonious Relationship Steadiness and stability mixed with congenialness, wisdom, and loyalty are hallmarks of the bear personality. Therefore, when two bears interact, it becomes a GROUNDED GREEN relationship. This combination has the tendency to be very grounded and stable. Since both are very focused on the one-on-one most intimate relationships in life and are very introspective, this relationship has the potential of being very rich and deep regardless if it is a romantic relationship or friendship. Although it may take a while to gain access to a bears inner circle, once you do, it is likely a long-term and meaningful relationship. Aside from the fierce loyalty, Bears are very playful with those they are comfortable with, making this a very fun and emotionally fulfilling relationship. By nature, individuals with this personality type are very agreeable and tend to avoid conflict at all cost; therefore, this relationship creates a peaceful environment that allows both to feel comfortable and secure. This dependability tends to help with building trust.

Gets Lost Green

Dissonant Relationship When this relationship is dissonant, it can lack passion and direction. We playfully call this combination the GETS LOST GREEN relationship dynamic. Since both are so agreeable and can tend to be wishy-washy and indecisive, it can be very hard for two of them together to find any direction. This aimlessness can result in complacency and even apathy if they do not put forth concerted effort to make intentional attempts to invest in the relationship tasks. Decision making of any kind can be extremely difficult for both which means many issues are likely avoided. Interactions between these two may resemble the theme from the jungle book movie "What do you want to do?”….… "I don't know, what do you want to do?". …… "It doesn't matter to me.” ….. etc. Another struggle for this relationship is that they avoid conflict so much, they may have significant difficulty addressing any issues. This can lead to bottling up concerns until they eventually become major. Frequently, avoiding conflict likely creates more conflict.

Things to Remember:

Bears, it is imperative to remember that conflict is necessary in relationships. It is through conflict that relationships can grow closer and stronger and develop trust. It is through unresolved or poorly addressed conflict that resentments grow and respect is lost. Additionally, both being so agreeable can quickly result in a lack of momentum or accomplishment, therefore, you must be willing to step out of your comfort zone to speak up and make intentional effort towards goals.

Bear Attributes:

Accommodating, Gentle, Indecisive, Procrastinator, Even-tempered, Reserved, Avoidant, Introspective, Laid back, Mellow, Sympathetic, Pleasant and Patient, Tolerant, Steady, Loyal, Indifferent, Stoic, Deliberate, Generous, Unmotivated